Virtual Vows Across Borders: Our Real Wedding Experience

Virtual Vows Across Borders: Our Real Wedding Experience

Blog Article

Getting married was always part of our plan — we just didn’t expect to do it from opposite sides of the world.

When you’re in a long-distance relationship, especially with military deployment, everything gets more complicated. Time zones, travel restrictions, planning — even picking a emergency wedding date can feel impossible.

We wanted to start our life together. But a traditional wedding just kept falling through.

Then we found out we could say “I do” over Zoom — for real.

At first, we thought it was only symbolic. But after researching, we learned that states like Utah offer fully virtual marriages — with a licensed officiant and official paperwork — and they’re recognized across the U.S..

We decided to go for it.

Here’s how it worked for us:

• We verified our identities and filled out a quick form.
• We reserved our wedding time with an officiant who was licensed for online ceremonies.
• We invited our loved ones to join via Zoom.
• And when the day came, we joined the call, said our vows, and just like that — we were married.

I said “I do” from my apartment. My fiancé said it from their country overseas.

It was real. It was easy. And it was ours.

The officiant guided us through everything. The ceremony was quick, but powerful. And we received our legal marriage certificate immediately — no courthouse, no plane tickets, no headaches.

Since then, we’ve used our online marriage to handle joint bank accounts, and every agency has recognized it — no issues at all.

If you’re separated by borders, don’t wait. Online marriage is real, and it’s a meaningful way to start your future — even if you’re not in the same place.

We’re proof that weddings don’t need venues — and that what matters most is the commitment.

Report this page